The bottom line about family and family members is love them, appreciate them and cherish each one of them. God's divine purpose for family is to become a support system for love, care and encouragement for each other so that each person becomes the best that God made them to be. So, if you family member, mom, dad, siblings or child is being wayward and causing dysfunction in the family, that is the where your support system role is called for. The challenge is how can you love, care and motivate them to become the best God designed them to be. So seek constructive actions and thoughts. This is what we have been talking about. Whatever you do, let your motive be love and not anger. Learn to love without expecting any benefit. Extend yourself and grow.